Summer has arrived and I have to admit to moving a little slower than usual lately. The morning rush to get out the door has all but disappeared. My son recently turned three and I’ve decided that this is my favorite age so far. I’ve been savoring the moments with him as he masters the ABCs, repeats everything I say (oops! Mommy didn’t mean to say that!), and learns to navigate a more independent world. Though I’ve written numerous books and have almost as many business ventures, he is by far my greatest accomplishment.
I’m a mom who works. I made that choice and I make no apologies for it. My son goes to daycare–which he loves–and he doesn’t have to spend endless hours there like he would if I had to commute and clock-in to a 9 to 5 job. He gets to enjoy new experiences and play with friends while mommy brings home some entrepreneurial bacon. I think we’re both good with that.
I believe that I am a better mom because I love what I do. I could put my career on hold and stay home with my son all day, but would I appreciate him as much? Would he appreciate me as much? Just because you’re in the same room together doesn’t mean that you’re sharing quality time.
Because I work, my family time is sacred. I have a plan for my business and a plan for my parenting. Mommy time is all about creating memories, cultivating joy and raising my son to be a good, happy, confident, empathetic human being. I want him to have as many life experiences as possible. I want him to enjoy meeting all kinds of people, behave well in restaurants, treat humans and animals with respect and say “please” and “thank you” regularly. I want him to laugh often, learn something new every day (no matter how old he is), and I want him to always know that he is loved.
I hope that the legacy I leave for my son is that I was a good mom first, and a business owner second–and that a person, male or female, can be successful at both. I hope that when he grows up, he finds something he loves doing and that he does it with all his heart. And then, at the end of the day, he will return home to his own family and he will love them fiercely. That will be my ultimate success.








